He becomes a difficult man to please, let alone to live with. All these are happening because of this uncertainly and sense of insecurity. Security is a very fundamental human need. So close to our heart is this need that many of us will give up our dreams in return for security. I don't really understand the psychology behind this fully. Nonetheless, when these psychological obstacles and their symptoms crippled me when I was going into new ventures, I found the following mental arguments useful. They worked well for me probably because they were rather simple and straight forward:

• Not all employers are equal.
• You are employed by some employer, or yourself.
• You want to be working for an employer who treats you well.
• You don't want your employer to sacrifice your welfare to maximize his profits.
• You want to work for someone you can trust.
• You are more likely to protect your own welfare than any other employer would.
• So if you can trust yourself, do work for yourself.
• If you can't trust yourself, don't work for yourself, but still keep looking for the best employer you can find and offer to work for him, as soon as possible.
• Many a times, logic works much better than psychology. It did for me.

Best of luck.

P.S. Don't do anything hastily unless you have enough savings to support your family for six months.